Spark. Attraction . That magical & passionate air of pink heaven . Those wishing stars. That smiling at yourself idiotically. Butterflies . Ouch . The silly uncontrollable blushing and flush of heat on your cheeks . The overcharged tingling hearts. The chemistry , oozing . The electricity and fireworks under the lining of your chest. the dreams ..the wishful thinking.. and sinful romantic thoughts… the jump of ecstasy behind every ping from your mobile .. the sudden love for fairytales and soft music. The stalking -and- ending- up –in – their -sister’s- boyfriend’s -neice’s- cousin’s- son’s- page . Oh damn . The irresistible temptations to text .The hiding . The seeking . the stealing side glances .. the dilated eyelids . Those moist lips . That electrifying feel they give you…
Oh the list is endless , really .
Call it a crush, an infatuation, a soft corner for someone , a charm, a connection , a feeling , crazy- stupid- love, or any of those sugary chocolaty coated expressions. Sounds ineffable , doesn’t it?! I swear it is .
“ He fell in love with her. Not because she gave him feelings, but because she gave him feelings he never thought he needed ” .
According to me , love is a paradox .It’s the most simple thing to do , and at the same time ,the hardest . It is literally the easiest and toughest test of life .
It’s like , you either ‘love’ them , madly, or you Don’t . No questions asked. No complains, no demands , no excuses . Simple as that . It is the baby kind of love . That’s why it is called something like ‘un-conditional’ love . Sounds familiar? It would be so easy to actually love and keep loving , if people knew this , isn’t it?
But ironically it is also the most toughest thing to do . Because only a free pure heart would be able to accept another heart so purely . Why don’t we see such mentality in love these days ? People love astral drama and like adding it to their love life quite conveniently . In the name of ‘love’ they are actually only consoling themselves and ruining the word . If only people knew the meaning of true clean love and did only ‘love’.. Not stack it up with their own by products of emotions . For example , If you love someone but constantly try to change them , you’re not doing ‘love’ . If you love someone but suppress your emotions , you’re not doing ‘love’. If you love someone and get insecure time and again, you’re not doing ‘love’ . If you love someone and constantly worry about their whereabouts , I’m sorry but you’re not doing ‘love’ . Love is pure and simple . No drama required . You cannot say, I love them ,that’s why I am crying for them .. Love is the most positive feeling , so how can it cause not-so-positive things in life ? It’s because people don’t really realize the divinity of it . So Whom to blame? People have made love a myth . As if it is a duty .
When you love someone , you care about them . Not worry. You heal them , not fret about what they’re going through . You help them , not shout at them for mistakes . You improve their life , not try to change them . You express your feelings, not suppress them in a dark bottle inside your heart. When you love someone , you see them as a catalyst to cherish your life , not as a blockage to it . Because from where I see it , love is something that makes you fly higher, not further down. Worth a thought .
Even in the movie, Alice in Wonderland , Alice asks ,how long is forever ? and the white rabbit replies,sometimes just a second…. However esoteric and deep this sentence actually means, people have sort of taken it quite literally! Yeah seriously. Their ‘forever’ love is generally as long as a second….. one moment they are exchanging sugar coated words, dipped in cheese …. and next moment they remember something of the past, and there goes their cheesiness in the oven .
But let me tell you, you never stop loving somebody.. You either never did, or you always will .
So why do people fail in love ? Answer lies within . Because obviously , they didn’t know the real definition ,hence they fail the test .
If someone asks me , what are the ingredients of love , I’d say, the moment you try and put any ingredients to it , you start reversing the process of getting the broth. When there’s actual love , there’s only uncontaminated pure love . It is scientifically proven that the energy of love is so potent , that it is enough to break any walls, and give a person ‘life’ . Even the first organ that is formed of a fetus is the heart. The love centre . That love will make you feel so alive, you won’t need anything else . It will be just about everything .
Love is like a drug . It is pure only without the toxins . If you add toxins like anger, stress, confusion ,jealousy, greed, etc.etc.to it ,naturally it won’t be pure , right?
It is everywhere , but still rare .
To teach us this phenomena, there are some people who cross our lives and we just know it’s something . Something different . Something special . What surprises me is , amidst millions and millions of souls, how is it that we feel that sense of connection only with a chosen few? Why a certain few only keep crossing our paths and giving us feelings? To test yourself, ask yourself why do you love them ? Do you love them because they are ‘so caring ’ ? ..Well there are many people out there who are caring…. Do you love all of them ? One guy sees a girl and falls in love at first sight. There are so many sexy girls out there, why isn’t he in love with all of them ? Because there is just something about these souls. It’s a soul connect , a feel .
“Sometimes you meet someone, and it’s so clear so immediately that the two of you, on some level, belong together. As lovers, or as friends, or as family, or as something entirely different. You just work , whether you’re in love or just creating things together or partners in crime. You meet these people throughout your life, out of nowhere, under the strangest circumstances, and they help you feel complete . I don’t know if that makes me believe in coincidence, or fate, or sheer blind luck, but it definitely makes me believe in something.”
It’s a soul thing. That’s why no matter how much you try, you will still end up with them and feel something that no one else can make you feel.. This is Soulmate love . The forever kind of love .
So Fall in love , not fail in it . Trust me,it’s worth it .
“ You meet millions of people and none of them have a any difference on you, and then you meet One person and your life is changed forever .”
“ And someday , someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else”.
If you ask different people what love means,you’ll get varied answers… some would say it’s like a dreamy fairytale lovestory, for some it’s a feeling of exhilaration,sometimes it is an understanding beyond words, some would say it is how someone can just kiss away your scars and make love to your soul .. and for some,it’s like a thousand roses have blossomed in your heart. I do not know the real definition of love.. but I’m glad I have mine .
They felt it . They felt it all. They struck a chord.There was a rush . A chemistry. A marvelous maddening feel . They completed each other. And somewhere they knew it.. when they touched-with just a look .
Because there are some truths that science cannot explain and there are some connections that are beyond space and time.
POWERED by – SLEEPTECH MATTRESS